Destiny?

Well today a friend of mine showed me her blog and inspired me i guess into writing a few of my own. Blogging seems like a nice way to express my deepest thoughts without having to give a full out explanation to everyone i know one at a time. So as everybody knows the big 2/14/-- is coming up and some are going nuts about what they are doing, some are going nuts on who they are doing it with, some are going nuts about finally confessing their "love" for someone thinking that since its a romantic day it will up their chances, and some are just saying "eh" or "oh dang i forgot about that". Me? well i have no idea where i stand. I can tell u that i don't stand in the "wat am i doing and who am i doing it with" mainly cuz i dont have a girlfriend or anyone special in mind at the moment so i'll prolly be spending the day with the "eh" and "oh i forgot about that day" people. As for confessing well, i do like someone, i guess, not really sure wat it is at the moment actually, maybe just a thought that will lead to nothing? or a thought that will lead to feelings, who knows? i sure a hell dont. while thinking about this i came across a statement that a lot of people may think about but never really talk about out loud. And that statement well, rather a question is "Do you believe that there is someone out there Destined for you?". I wondered for the longest time about taht question. I have never had a girlfriend in my life, meaning of course never a relationship and i was wondering, is there someone out there for everyone? I hear it all the time that "Dont worry u'll find a girl JUST right for you and u'll be happy and it'll work out fine." and "Oh she just wasnt the one dont worry theres somebody out there for everyone u wont be alone forever" and those statements as annoying and over played as they are made me think. Is that true? people die alone all the time and people try to find their soul mates all the time and find a group of people that just end in heart ache. Or some that dont look for it at all just bump right into their soul mate that it works out fine. So i wonder. is there a such thing as being Destined for someone? and if so do u have to search for it or does it just come by randomly. i have no idea but at the moment i just wonder, will i ever know wat i feels like to have someone out there whos thinks about and dreams aobut u like u do? will know wat it feels like to kno somewhere someone cares for me as much as i do for them? and will i ever know what i feels like to never truely feel alone just because i thought of her? eh who knows for now i'll just keep livin life and having fun. You wont find it if u look for it. who knows maybe it'll just randomly happen.